Sunday, May 31, 2009

Unconventional Reality





"Ridicule is the treat paid to the genius by mediocrity"

- Oscar Wilde.

It is commonly believed that exceptionally intelligent people or the people whom we consider geniuses have eccentricities. And just like all other things this subject of the treatment of people who are unconventional also has a pattern. The pattern most often than not results in chaos in the lives of these 'gifted' people and only a handful have been able to claim a sort of 'normalcy' in their later lives

The pattern is often like this: If the subject in question is a child prodigy, it's always seen that in the beginning, the child is praised to the skies and his achievements slashed across all the front pages of newspapers. And due to the child's natural ability, he/she progresses way faster than a conventional child in our society. Few realize the emotional trauma which the child undergoes during this stage. The child will not only have to deal with all the unwanted attention but also the ridicule and antagonism of his fellow mates in college who're a good ten years or so older than him. This sort of treatment often results in behavior which has been termed eccentricities primarily because society doesn't know why the behavior occurs since, it doesn't fit the conventional ones they've been exposed to. This very 'gifted child' is later called a freak because our so called society fails to understand why the genius in this person behaves the way he /she does. [Interested readers may look up William James Sidis' page on wiki] The same pattern with a little variation is what follows in case of people who deviate from the trodden path of the masses.

The question now is why this happens? To understand this we must go to the roots i.e what is a society. A society is a framework or a construct which has been agreed upon by individuals sharing common behavioral patterns for them to co-exist harmoniously and lead to their betterment as a whole by fixing certain laws to which all belonging to this framework must adhere to.[the definition is mine] . Now in comes a person defying all the conventional laws and is a living proof to the society that there is a possibility that these behavioral patterns which were till then considered normal might just be a generality describing the behavior of people who are less gifted. If the society agrees to this, then it'll mean that it's existence is nothing but a bunch of mediocre people who have a reached a consensus. Now just how many of us would like calling ourselves mediocre? Though, on the surface we might agree that this so called genius is exceptional, but inwardly we hate him/her for being what he/she is. Their very attribute like their extraordinary intellect becomes their grave enemy. At this juncture, chaos begins.

When a person is denied the right to express something which is natural to him/her it leads to a forcible suppression of these qualities for the fear of non-acceptance by the society. This in turn might manifest itself as behaviors for which the word eccentricity has already been coined( This is quite clever on the part of the society since it's managed to give the word eccentricity a negative feeling). One must understand though, that it is not this uncommon behavior which leads to the downfall of such geniuses but the failure on the part of the society to accept them as their own. And when a person feels that he has nowhere to go where he feels at home, he' s shattered.

Time and again this has happened and a lot of contributions that these people might have made have never seen the light. It is quite unfortunate that being just like everybody else[of course with a few extra qualities which is OK as long as they are 'normal '] is considered a sign of individuality. Till the time comes when such people find acceptance, the world's a sa dplace for these geniuses to exist in...

Till next time,
Sayonara.

4 comments:

  1. So true again nikki ... throughout i could relate to Rubina Ali -slumdog millionaire girl
    Whatever she's facing today's what thousands of kids face in India... but why that special attention only to her? Why do we place them under magnifiers ? ? ? ... when's it gonna change ????

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  2. Hey nikshep..hope you remember me..(from cambridge )

    Its a really nice blog you have here..read 3 posts and liked them all..good going man..

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  3. society is forever breathing down the neck of anybody who is a shade apart from the so called "normal".. the "normal" so defind by the masses who in their enormous insecurities found it easier to ostracize the difference than embrace it... and i wud like to point out that this "treat" as you mentioned in your blog is not limited just to the enlightened prodigies ( btw,you have portayed your opinions on this beautifully :) )but also extends to people who are different in any way ..be it a style of talking.. way of dressup .. or simply put any aspect of a person's lifestyle that does does not seem to be in sync with the generally followed norm... evan as students we laugh n poke fun at any person a shade apart from us! we enjoy this coy way of veiling our own insecurities of perhaps not being gud enough by saying that the other person's difference is abnormal.. or rather as we popularly call it .. "freaky"!!
    ....
    "....Deep down, beneath all our insecurities, beneath all our hopes for and beliefs in equality, each of us believes we're better than anyone else. Because it's our beliefs that are right, our doubts that are allowable ones, our fears which are legitimate..."

    i suppose to sum up we can say ..
    "Prejudices are rarely overcome by argument; not being founded in reason they cannot be destroyed by logic"

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  4. good analogy on your part.
    as u mentioned, we always feel insecure if we are in company of a genius. according to me, if developes an infiriority complex in us, if we interact, read, or hear about people who are more intelligent than us.
    then again, there is no perfect test to tell who's more brainy than who. the authenticity of IQ tests has been debated from the very beginning. i read the wiki article about william james sidis, and was really saddened to read about his discomfort in mixing up with the society.
    what i think is that intelligence can be measured by how successful a person is. one who can figure out how to survive independently in the society, and can wriggle his/her way through people of lesser intelligence, is a true genius. one who survives all the social shortcomings and imperfection of the society is the most intelligent!

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